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Quado: Power of Thoughts
from the September 2005 Star Beacon
by Carrie Hart
Q: Over the years, I have been learning
how powerful my thoughts are in creating my reality. I have used this to
create a life that I am so grateful for now, though every day, I am still
learning how to become a master of my thoughts and my life. One thing I am
still not clear about is how this applies to relationships, since of course
everyone has free will. What happens when I think about someone? What happens
when I visualize them in my future? Can you please comment on how one’s
thoughts affect the reality of others?
This is an excellent
question and something which is difficult for many to grasp. And the reason is
that the information which I wish to give you goes outside of normal
understanding and can therefore seem confusing. But if you will but allow
yourself to understand it on a deeper level, not just trying to grasp it with
your rational mind, listening instead with your spirit and your heart, then
you should be able to understand and feel the rightness within you.
Your energies are, of
course, very powerful. You are your own energy, projected down from your soul
self. But you are also moving in a world which consists of many energies.
Sometimes these energies can be bent as they approach you, bent by your own
will, your own projected energy, thus creating around you a world of your own
making. Sometimes the other energies are strong, stronger than what you can
project, and you must bend to them.
All of this is true in
the physical world. In the level above you, where you exist as a soul self,
you are nothing but energy, a bright glowing ball of energy, glowing alongside
the others soul selves. And you are a part of a group there, closely related,
other souls with whom you have chosen to have many adventures, in this
projected physical life and in others. And you are glowing alongside each
other, exchanging energy and information and, of course, love.
And down here, in this
physical life, the best thing you can do for yourself is to open up the
channel to your own soul self, so that this loving energy pours down into you.
The more of this energy that pours down into you, the greater your connection
with the intentions of your soul self and the greater your ability to create a
world for yourself here of peace and love.
And as you have
discovered, if your mind, which is a part of this level down here, not of the
soul self level, if your mind is busy with fear and negative thoughts, if it
is focused on the past and the future in a negative way, then the soul self
energy is diluted and diffused and you are tossed about at the whim of other
energies, not your own.
And so, into this world
comes another person. You have been visualizing another person, visualizing
yourself as being connected in love. And this loving energy, giving energy,
does pull toward you what you seek. But then, of course, you must make sure it
is giving energy. For if you are trying to get, if you are projecting
visualizations and energies as an attempt to manipulate another person, you
will not pull them toward you, you will instead tend to drive them away.
But assume that you are
giving love. Assume that your intentions are to give to this person. In this
instance, then, you cannot be disappointed, for when you are giving love, when
you are not asking for anything in return, including a romantic or sexual
relationship, then you cannot be disappointed. But if you are trying to get
their loving heart turned toward you in romance and intimacy, then you are
trying to get and you may or may not be successful.
When you are giving
love, you have the advantage of also filling your heart with healing energy.
When you are needy and trying to make someone feel something else, when you
are trying to get intimacy from them, then you are turning the energies the
other way and filling yourself with need, not love.
And so the answer is
this. You cannot make another person love you or want to be with you. All you
can do is be who you are, shining out with everything that you are. And you
can send out energies of love, of giving love. You may visualize that you are
in a loving relationship, yes, but you would do well not to visualize a
particular person. You would do well instead to just picture yourself as you
wish to be, with a heart full of love, having the opportunity to share that
love with someone else, feeling that glow of connection. And then, let the
universe help you out by pulling toward you some who would love you just as
you are, for the person you are.
And then, when these
people come into your life, try as much as possible not to turn to daydreams
and fantasies of what could be, but instead, keep your heart open to love,
give love, and allow both yourself and the other person to be who they are.
This other person may be someone who is ready for an intimate relationship at
this time or may not. But if you are living in the world of connection with
what is, not with what you wish were true, then you can build many different
kinds of relationships, some which are friendships, some which go beyond this,
many kinds all based on who you truly are and who they truly are and where
each is on his or her own path at that moment.
Do not push. Do not
try. Do not manipulate. Do not daydream. Instead, just be. Come deeply into
now, this moment, and see what it holds. Allow yourself to be completely who
you are, dressing as it pleases you, laughing at what you truly think is
funny, doing the weird and quirky things which are you. And allow the other
person to be as they are, completely, not a projection of what you think they
could be if only they would fix some of their faults.
And then, see what you
have. Be honest and direct but not manipulative and trying to get. Listen
carefully. People will often tell you exactly what they are seeking and how
they feel, but too often this gets misdirected through fantasies and daydreams
and attempts to change the other person.
Be open to how the
universe wishes to deliver to you. Be very open to things being other than
what you thought they would and should be. Be open to people who are different
than those you are used to. Be open to trying out new kinds of relationships,
ways of being with other people that do not quite fit in the box you are used
to or that society has laid out for you. Your own original relationships can
often be much more satisfying and fulfilling, if unconventional.
And most of all, relax.
Relax and just let it be. Gently float your dreams and then let life bring
what it brings. With a heart full of love and openness, many wonderful things
will come your way. And when they come, let them be. Keep open. Be like the
bird floating on the breeze as it wafts across the garden, not the spider
waiting to catch the fly. Let life deliver her bounty to you in free and open
ways. Shine out with all that you are. Show the world all of your glorious
talents and beauties. Be such a bright light that the best and brightest will
be drawn to you, making all glow the brighter.
Let be in love. Let be
in light. Glow and let be.
Carrie Hart is the
author of There is a Garden, the story of her spiritual
journey from stressed executive to spiritualist and channeler of Quado. This
book, Carrie’s CDs of original music, as well as daily messages by Quado are
available on www.carriehart.com.
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